Dear Life: A Doctor's Story of Love and Loss (Hardback)
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Dear Life: A Doctor's Story of Love and Loss (Hardback)

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Hardback 336 Pages / Published: 30/01/2020
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A tender and beautiful rumination on terminal illness and the provision made for our final days, Dear Life chronicles palliative care expert, Dr Rachel Clarke’s, own emotional journey with her dying father as well as the broader world of the hospice. Lit up by moments of unexpected humour, this may be a naturally melancholy meditation but it is also one, ultimately, filled with grace, hope and incredible acts of love.

From the bestselling author of Your Life in My Hands comes this vibrant, tender and deeply personal memoir that finds light and love in the darkest of places.

As a specialist in palliative medicine, Dr Rachel Clarke chooses to inhabit a place many people would find too tragic to contemplate. Every day she tries to bring care and comfort to those reaching the end of their lives and to help make dying more bearable.

Rachel's training was put to the test in 2017 when her beloved GP father was diagnosed with terminal cancer. She learned that nothing - even the best palliative care - can sugar-coat the pain of losing someone you love.

And yet, she argues, in a hospice there is more of what matters in life - more love, more strength, more kindness, more joy, more tenderness, more grace, more compassion - than you could ever imagine. For if there is a difference between people who know they are dying and the rest of us, it is simply this: that the terminally ill know their time is running out, while we live as though we have all the time in the world.

Dear Life is a book about the vital importance of human connection, by the doctor we would all want by our sides at a time of crisis. It is a love letter - to a father, to a profession, to life itself.

Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group
ISBN: 9781408712528
Number of pages: 336
Weight: 580 g
Dimensions: 236 x 162 x 34 mm


MEDIA REVIEWS

'Clarke is unerringly good at telling stories and Dear Life is full of them…' - The Observer

‘Moving, funny and compulsively readable, it’s part love letter, part lament to a great ideal that she believes is being starved of the resources it needs to thrive.’ - The Sunday Times

'This is a wonderful book. Rachel takes the worst life can throw at us and shows us the beauty in it, and the very best of human nature' - Adam Kay, author of This is Going to Hurt 

'Moving, thought-provoking and so very important. I'm immeasurably grateful to have read it, and it will stay with me. In death, we learn about life' - Nigella Lawson

'A truly beautiful book about death and life and the price of love. Told by a doctor, with compassion and wisdom. I cried, but they were warm, comforting tears. It made me think about stuff I fear in a new and better way' - Matt Haig

'Dying is rarely easy, nor is writing about it - but Rachel Clarke does so perfectly, with neither sentimentality nor sensationalism, and instead with realism and kindness. This is a truly wonderful book. Read it ' - Henry Marsh, author of Do No Harm

'What a remarkable book this is; tender, funny, brave, heartfelt, radiant with love and life, and with the love of life. It brought me often to laughter and - several times - to tears' - Robert Macfarlane

'Dear Life names the tension between love and risk that gives life its sweetness. It takes readers to the edge of life in supportive, wise company' - Kathryn Mannix

'Rachel Clarke should be essential reading for all of us. A few years ago she wrote Your Life in My Hands, an account of her time as a junior doctor. Now she has written an even better book ... It is in part a love letter both to her father, whose life and death she describes with great tenderness and unflinching directness, and her patients, but it is also a touching and profound meditation on what it means to be human ... It is a remarkable book' - John Crace, The Guardian

'Clarke writes so movingly about what it means to face death, the grief that gets left behind and how hospices do such vital work in allowing people to die being looked after and surrounded by the people they love' - Stylist

'Though a new medical memoir seems to come along every five minutes just now, this one is special. Clarke ... has written a book, beautiful and blessedly un-mawkish, about her experiences. Among its pages are true horrors for those involved, but also a numinous beauty. Her words are brimful of love, grace and kindness' - Alex Preston, The Guardian

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“This book is about celebrating life until the last breath....”

I have to be honest that I haven’t felt this emotional reading a book for a long time. This book left me totally in awe of her dedication, inspiration and her compassion.

It was written by a doctor who specialises in... More

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“Emotionally exhausting yet heartwarmingly life affirming”

Spoken from the heart by palliative care doctor Rachel Clarke.

Be taken by the hand in her narrative experiences of death and dying both through her work and very close personal life.

To read this brings you up... More

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“Unexpectedly uplifting”

“Death is not the opposite of life, but part of it” Murakami
The hardest thing to get your head around is the truth of the quotation above, but if someone gets close, it's Rachel Clarke.
When she was younger... More

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