The Origins of You: How to Break Free from the Family Patterns that Shape Us (Hardback)

THE ORIGINS OF YOU offers us a promise: our family of origin, no matter how damaged it might have been, does not determine our destiny. With empathy and wisdom, Vienna Pharaon explains how our past creates our patterns - patterns we're still living out today - and how we can shift those habits to create a new, healthier path for ourselves. Vienna's book is a gift - Nedra Glover Tawwab, bestselling author of SET BOUNDARIES, FIND PEACE

Wow! A book that not only clearly guides one's journey towards self-understanding and healing, but disarms you and speaks directly to your soul. This book is filled with invaluable information interwoven in powerful, compassion-filled stories that help shift perspectives. If you are ready to break patterns, face your wounds, and work towards healthy relationships - Vienna's words are it - Sara Kuburic, existential therapist, author, and creator of @Millennial.Therapist

THE ORIGINS OF YOU is a powerful guide to know ourselves and change our relationships. Vienna has provided the knowledge we need to deeply improve our lives. This book is for anyone who is serious about personal growth and is ready for a big change - Yung Pueblo, author of CLARITY AND CONNECTION

THE ORIGINS OF YOU does a brilliant job of striking the balance of acknowledging the pain of the past without getting lost in blame. As you reflect on growing up in your family, you'll have countless aha moments, opportunity for self-discovery, and a path forward for ending unhealthy patterns in your life and relationships. This book is the book that everyone in your family should read - Julianne Hough, Emmy Award winner, dancer, actor and entrepreneur

I can say the following with great confidence: Vienna Pharaon has outdone herself. And, as someone who has known her excellence and passion for years, this is saying a lot! In THE ORIGINS OF YOU, Vienna guides us, with her kind heart and clear eyes, to make connections between our past and our present. Because insight is necessary but not sufficient, Vienna goes further, helping us heal our wounds and create new possibilities for cultivating self-love and healthy relationships in our lives today. THE ORIGINS OF YOU is a book that I will recommend without hesitation to my clients, students, family, and friends - Alexandra H. Solomon, licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, author of LOVING BRAVELY and TAKING SEXY BACK, host of REIMAGINING LOVE

THE ORIGINS OF YOU forces us to accept that you can't outrun your past. Vienna is a skilled family therapist who uses her expertise, compassionate voice, and engaging storytelling to help you discover what to do when your early life experiences are no longer serving you. This is the book for anyone who has ever wondered, 'Why am I like this and what can I do about it?' - Whitney Goodman, LMFT and author of TOXIC POSITIVITY

Compelling and groundbreaking. To truly know who we are, we must witness where we've been. THE ORIGINS OF YOU invites us to move forward by first moving back, and it is a staple for anyone looking to heal - Marisa Franco, author of PLATONIC